The gate is open. Will you step inside?

Everyday I am taught more by the Dragons and the dark goddesses what it means to be truly sovereign. Through out our lives we tend to wear masks to make ourselves more palatable, more appealing to society, even though many times it goes against the very person we are. I for example, had been taught to snuff out or tamp down my intensity often, just to be more likable. Instead of saying Im a Witch, I would many times say “I’m spiritual” so as not to scare people.

I had exes try to convert me to a religion that would deny me and my raw feminine power. I even had family tell me not to tell neighbors that I am not a Witch! Or many of you can relate to the ex that wanted you to choose between them and your cat/pet. And almost every time I gave in because of that good girl conditioning that was so strong! And then I’d have moments when Hecate would come through and I’d say no and in their eyes, rebel.

Little by little I started standing my ground more with family, friends and men until finally the universe brought a man who could handle my fiery nature. My husband and I have now been together for 15 years, going on 16. Looking back I notice that every time I didn’t settle, every time I chose my sovereignty, the universe complied. I was never made for this patriarchal, extractive system. A system that hurts men too, not only women and children. See my father was a prime example of this, a story for another time.

Still I would feel like I had to hide who I was even after building my own home with my husband. I felt this strongly when it came to jobs, I often felt like I had to snuff my intensity and magick. Either because I was getting paid to sing at churches and synagogues or I was teaching little kids piano and I didn’t want to scare the parents. I was always longing to be able to fully express my raw authentic, sovereign self and it was always income through a job that made me feel less empowered and able to do so.

Fast forward to now, I was forced on a leave of absence, with no pay and am having to learn how to create income for myself and my family. Despite the terror of it all and a hard deadline of paying rent this month no later than the 31st, (or else face eviction) there is also a gift in this all. I have finally claimed my full sovereignty and this will look different for everyone. For some sovereignty is finding the right job or career, the right partner, the right city, the right home, etc. It is whatever makes you feel 100% in control and in power of yourself, your life, your home, and makes you feel authentic and whole.

Through these last weeks I’ve learned that in order to hold your throne, your sovereignty… you can’t wait for permission. Your world may be falling apart around you, along with the structures that made you feel safe and it’s moments like these that you decide that your sovereignty is non-negotiable. When you choose sovereignty, the universe listens and complies even if it not immediately. Because in the end of the day you are the architect of your life. So in honor of helping women and others to no longer have to wear a mask, to appease society. I am opening three immediate spots for Throne 3 Month Container, starting this week.

This is for the woman or person who is done with wearing masks for society and is ready to anchor into her or their own power, guided by the Dark Goddesses and the primal energy of the Dragons. We don’t just talk about power; we reclaim it from the structures that tried to take it.

If your blood stirs when you read this, click the button below 👇 or reply to this email. Let’s lock in your foundation before the month ends.